bReaKiNg Up...
Guy and Girl dates
Guy loses feelings for Girl
Guy breaks up with Girl
Guy dates New Girl soon after
Girl is devastated
How many times have you heard a story like this? I really wonder how many people actually uses depleted feelings out of the blue as a reason to shake off the other half. Of all the reasons there are to break up, I guess the one that I can never come in terms with is "I'm sorry, I have no more feelings for u"....
Him: I'm sorry I have fallen for someone new. Lets break up.
Me: U unfaithful jerk! I hope u get dumped by her! *Slaps* No, I'm dumping u!
Him: Let break up, I need to focus on my studies/career/whatever...
Me: Didn't u say I was ur world?? *Slaps Slaps Slaps* Heartless Jerk!
Him: I'm sorry, My mother doesn't like you!
Me: I don't like your shit-faced mother either! Worthless Jerk! *Slaps*
Him: I'm sorry, but u are just not good enough for me...
Me: What?? Like I'm supposed to feel inferior to u?? U filthy ugly toad! *Slaps*
Him: I'm sorry, I have no more feelings for you... Lets break up...
Me: ....................................*Slaps*.................*Slaps*...............*Slaps*
I can understand breaking up due to clashes in characters. But having no more feelings for another person seemed like such an insincere reason for breaking up... Its so sudden and unbelievable. Irregardless who made the first move in the relationship, eventually both were responsible for leading each other on to believe that there is a future.
Do u believe in losing love for someone overnight? How can it happen? Well, unless he got knocked down by a truck and suffers severe amnesia. If feelings were that easily lost, why start an relationship in the first place? The time wasted and the emotions invested by the other party, while u decide on how ur feelings work, isn't something u can compensate with apologies.
Since he appeared so indecisive in his feelings, maybe tomorrow he might change his mind? But what if he doesn't? So now what? Is she supposed to wait, or go on with life and stop believing in the past? Everything seems so ambiguous, right? I guess a person like this isn't worth being so upset over. A person that cant even be open and truthful about his/her feelings, isn't worth loving anyway.
Baby says I seems to have the character of a male at times. Strong and stubborn. Or perhaps I've grown alot emotionally, I never believed anyone cant survive without the other. I was born without him, so surely I can live without him. If I'm ever faced with such an situation, I would just forget the asshole and live better. Like the one who never fails to voiced out that I wasn't good enough for him back then. He's just not good enough for me now.
