I feel at my MEANEST today!!! I would tear the whole house down if I can.That huge ugly pimple on my right chin is making me lose control of all sanity!!!! My gum hurts from it, my teeth aches from it, I'm losing sleep over it, a headache is developing, and my lower right cheek and the whole chin are like paralysed with PAIN now. If period cramp is this bad, I would operate away my womb, I swear.I doubt I've ever got a pimple this bad! I thought the one I've got on my left cheek from the bad air in HKG some 10 years back was like the worst already. Hell, NOOOO!!! You should really see this, its just a small pea-size thing but it had managed to make a full 3cm diameter around it swell up with pain! Nasty!!!I can just pull off a long string of vulgarities now loh! PAIN is an understatement. AAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Anyway, an recent entry below. Boy, it seems like I'm in alot of ANGER lately.The language sucks but I'm in no mood to do any checking or editing. Well, nobody reads my blog expecting good English anyway. Bye, I'm off to curse my PAIN.**************************
I know I’ve written about this before, but I’m gonna write about it again. Blame it on the idiotic males who once again sparked off my frustrations over this.
Guys always talk about the equality of sexes when it comes to sharing the household expenses, the wedding expenses, the housing loans, and the list goes on. But when it comes to the corporate wars, the household authorities and such, hello where did the equality of sexes suddenly disappearred to?
Just because it’s the so-called norm nowadays, it doesn’t mean that it is right. Just because there are very obliging females, it doesn’t mean that you can shamelessly take the rest for granted! And just because your girlfriend or wives are kind and considerate enough to share your financial burdens, it doesn’t mean we owe you any responsibilities to do so!
My point remains.
Many guys get mistaken here. Signing the marriage certificate only bonds you in recognition as a married couple in the eyes of the law. It does not imply that your wife has been sold to you, nor does she become your property. And it is certainly not a door pass to start short-changing her happiness thereafter.
Heard about the bastard whom not only beat up his wife in front of his in-laws, saw no responsibilities whatsoever to bring bread home to his wife and family, and still demands money from his wife’s hard earn bonus to upgrade his car! The Shameless even have the audacity to protest that “But you are already married to me!” when the wife refused.
Surprise, surprise, such was the act of a college educator I know. Boy, it must be a disgust to share a bed with an asshole like this. Hello? She’s only married to you, not sold to you! But OMG, two children??!! I guess the woman isn’t that clever either.
See, if you expect a woman to get married to cook your meals, slog her ass off at work to earn pennies to split the household bills, the grocery expenses and the housing installments, get fucked and bear children that don’t even carry her surname, then spend weekends at home cleaning after your mess, with no allowance expected and no questions asked, you must be one fucking idiotic pea-brained egoistic male to even assume so in the first place.
I assure you that every single female on the planet gets married with expectations of a blissful life. Contribute to the household when the man is less capable? Sure, fair enough. But if you are looking for an instant slave here, come on, which girl wants to get married that way? Even the Indonesian maid gets an easier job. And she GETS PAID!!!
Of course, there could be girls who find joy in washing diapers and that all, no doubt. If you’ve met someone like that, then congrats you’ve found a SuperGirl whose mentality is still stuck in the 50s. But chances, are, these girls don’t expect to work after marriage. Or either, your ears have simply been deaf to the grudges in them. =)
Local males will argue that “What allowance? Modern couples are about sharing! There's nothing wrong with that mah. Anyway, we do the common practice of emptying our CPF account for the flat’s down-payment first. The girl would only need to contribute her CPF to the monthly housing loans thereafter. We would still have contributed more to housing.”
Oh, so? Don’t make me laugh my ass off! What the big deal? Is your CPF account worth like millions? Wake up, girls! It’s not even like the returns from the sale of the flat goes to the female. They’ll still go entirely back to HIS account!
And, what sharing?? Sharing means splitting the household chores too. Guys, be fair. Come on, admit who does more of the work at home. Not you! Who goes through the pain of labor? Not you neither! I don't even know how you can call that sharing!
And stop using the flat for an excuse! Singapore guys are so unromantically good at that. Even the wedding proposal revolves around the flat.
I can jolly well buy my own flat, empty out my own CPF account and still pay the monthly installment by myself too! Why do we need you? The grocery and household bills are definitely cheaper by myself too. And the best part is, I can feed myself ice-creams and Bailey’s any day I like. Who needs to care a damn about compromising to alien taste-buds? I don't even need to share my bed, nor put up with that awful snoring every night! And even better, I don’t have to share the profits from the sales of my flat too.
So why get married??!!
Again, the male may too protest that we get married so that we can have kids! “Don’t all woman love kids? You need us, don’t you?” Sure, most of us love kids (not me though). Well, we can always hop over to the Sperm Bank for one. One who will eventually bear my last name, that is. =)
On the other hand, can males bear children?? O_o Yah, you weren’t wrong to think that sperm is unique to men. Then let me inform you that cloning doesn’t even need a sperm. =)
Guys, you still don’t get it do you? Your role in this world can almost be obsoleted already. Be the egoistic fool you were, go ahead. But seriously, you are in no position to bargain any more from us, yet don’t intend pay your share for it. You had better start appreciating the saints in females, dude.
Go dutch on marriage? Really… Don’t kid us.
P/S: Any disagreeing males around? Yes, call me a feminist. Or better still, go ahead and brand me a FCP too. But I don’t really care what your puny brain thinks. =)
